Relasi Interpersonal Pada Mahasiswa Gagal Dalam Berpacaran

Love is the human‟s basic need which as comfortable condition to a
couple when built relation felling based. Romantic relationship is one of relation
felling based which give freedom to choose loving person. Opportunely, every
romantic love couldn‟t be long last and marriageable. Fail in romantic relationship
(break‟s up) can be final destination of this condition and can be change agent of
interpersonal relationship people, include college student. Cause it, this research
do to obtain an illustration of interpersonal relationship in college student who fail
in romantic relationship. The mine participants in this research were four people
with criteria: active sign as college student, more than 18 years old, have romantic
relationship experience, ever fail in romantic relationship, and had been 3-6 month
or more after fail in romantic relationship. The data collection techniques use
semi-structured interviews and use natural setting observation by non-participant
observation also participant observation. The question proposed is how the
interpersonal relationship in college student who fail in romantic relationship?
The result of the research indicated that interpersonal relationship of participants
is various and always change before dating, at dating, when fail in romantic
relationship also after fail in romantic relationship and adapting with known
people, friends and academician at same time. Although that, participant named
Gwl, A, Ry, and Chy had same experience namely “broke step” when fail in
romantic relationship, and turn again into positive step after adapting in several
time. Accepting and positive respond from another people, also desire and
changing to positive perception from participant impacted to comfortable and
positive experience while relationship. These also make all participant be adapted
from stressful condition to adapted condition and done to open, believe also
support when relating and doing activities with another people.
Keywords: interpersonal relationship, college student who fail in romantic
relationship.